Thursday, October 25, 2007
This is what i call a V shaped body. You have broad shoulders with thick muscular chest and then a small waist to make a body for a guy. The icing on the cake would be if the guy has good 6abs or better still 8 pacs. hahah!!! V shape does not include wide waist with parallel shoulders. and there is no point in wearing tight clothes and thinking that you look good despite the fact that you know where u stand when you look into the mirror.
P.S: this post is written at random when i am sitting in the class bored while doing research on viscosity.
Since i am in the topic about dressing, i might as well as about how people judge us from it.
first consider about the fact why people tend to associate us with our dressing sense. the reason is that we usually wear what we like or we think we look good in. In a case of a sportman, he is most likely to be wearing some sports associated shirt or some jersery with shoes. someone who is into hiphop, they would be dressed in 'army' looking pants which clings near their hips with metal belt and converse shoes and some 'bling-bling'. if we were to see someone who is wearing all black with dark eyeliner, black colored nails and long/messy hair, probably the person is interested in gothic/emo culture. so in all, people dress what they like to be.
in my case, as many people know, i dress more like a slacker. that means polo tee and jeans with slippers or shoes. i don't really give much importance into dressing nice because i am not meeting Mr Bf everyday. sometimes i try to look nicer for him or in case there is any events like AGM or some important meeting at HQ. So people do feel that i am more of a slacker which at times i would not disagree with. i am sick of people trying to tell me to dress up but do consider that i need money to make the first step that is to buy clothes. if you say that i can dress up with what i have at home, then you are wrong bacause more than half my cupboard is filled with polo tees. so why blame me? hahah.. i know i can make the effort to save and buy but whenever i'm saying money, i have other more important issues to give the money to. haiz, i am sick of it. might as well wait til i get a job or something.
So people can't differenciate the dressing style when it comes to looking good or attract people of the other gender or worst still the same gender * yewwwww!!!*
A gay would dress in a more feminine way trying to attract men or as i heard before, wear tights in the gym in an attempt to find another guy who shares the same gender interest. If it is a woman, people say that it is difficult to differenciate whether a woman who dresses to look good or to attract men. let's look at it this way. if a woman wants to look good, she might dress in a way she shows people that she feels good about herself. if it is someone who wants to attract man, she would dress revealing and all. some might ask how to differenciate. a woman who wants to look good might dress abit revealing flaunting her assets in the correct and decent way. that means she might not mind showing abit of cleavage or legs. the key word is abit only. she would not be attracting the wrong crowd of people.
However if it is a woman who wants to attract another man, she would be practically showing off everything.. from her boobs to her thighs. probably when she bends forward, whatever is inside is bulging out. as for her legs, it might probably reach a point when you can't see her mini-skirt or that her skirt is of ur palm length. if u say you wan to look good for ur own partner, then just do so when you guys are having ur own time or when there is no one around. but by wearing as though you have almost no clothes on, you are just sending the wrong msg. in that case, do not claim that a guy is trying to misbehave to you (girls) or that a gay is trying to get close to you (guys).
To conclude this topic to from my point of view, it is just that people can wear what they like in order to look good or feel good abt themselves. but they should not send the wrong msg to people which sadly many people are doing :(
let's all have a minute of silence for all these clowns. *hush*
Wokai, next post is most probably abt ben & jerry's chocolate fudge ice cream, new blogskin and clowns who are so keen in making themselves look like fools :)
