Friday, April 21, 2006
Okay guys...
Now i am gonna spill watever is in my mind...
Read it or leave...
You might think it is the same old rants...
But face it man... This is wat i experience...
Okay, let's start from the beginning...
My story:
This guy is frm the same sch i am. I knw got to knw him from a fren.
Since i sort of knw who u r...
I wanted to be nice to u...
Oh, yes... I think u dun knw who am i...
I actually knw u b4 from a smiling incident...
So i smiled to u whenever i saw u on campus.
U too smiled at me *thanks for tat*
Even ytd, u smiled and made my evening... Tat was a nice one...
But wat was wrong wif u todae?
Did u see me wif some-middled-aged guy at geylang or sth?
As usual, i saw u today in the morning...
Being a nice person for that moment, i decided to smile :)
However, wat was the reacton i got from u???
A smile ...
A SMILE WHICH --> u wld usually give a flirt/slut/someone-nt-worth-giving-respect-to
It just shook me...
I mean wat was the point of that?
Might as well u dun bother to look at my face...
Wat did i do?
Did i go stalk you everywhere u go? Did i flirt wif u? Or did i do what other flirty girls do?
None!!!
And wat did i get?
A smile which clearly shows tat u can't be bothered giving...Might as well u dun smile...
A smile is suppose to brighten up someone's morning/afternoon/nite/whole day!
If tat smile isn't gonna be whole-heartedly given, DUN GIVE IT!!!
I did have an good impression of u...
Now, i dun knw where shld i place u...
Come on la... I knw tat alot of girls are after u...
Dun think i am too...
I dun even stand a chance...
I knw my limits and stayed within it but wat did i get?
*ARGH*
I dun knw if it is me or sth...
But i notice tat guys are normal, friendly to most girls.
But change once 2 incidents happen...
1) They knw tat the girl likes them...
2) They think tat the girl is interested in them...
U knw wat wld they reaction be?
To start ignoring the girl...
The guys tend to have a mindset that they have done a great sacrifice or sth...
i mean wat on earth is the problem with u guys?
Do u have some mind blockage when a girl likes u or u think tat she likes u?
For heaven's sake...
I will tell u wat to do...
If a girl says she likes u: Just let her knw tat u aren't interested. However, u can remain as frens :) There is no need to start acting as if u have made a great sacrifice or sth... Also, do wat u say... If u say let's remain ad good frens, DO be a good fren... Tal to her as per normal... No need to feel awkward... Come to think of it, the girl shld be the one feeling awkward to talk to u... So dun make her feel as if she has made a gravely mistake where by which there is no forgiveness... Let her realise tat u are better off as her fren... Dun make her think tat she is better off without u ...
If a u think tat a girl is interested in u: Just be a fren to her... If u wan to clear ur doubts, pls do so... Dun keep it in ur mind as a burning question which u dun wan an answer to... If u think she is realli a god fren to u, ask her directly/indirectly ... Like " hey, do u think "XXX" is a nice guy? why nt u go for him?" If she says tat she is nt interested in anyone, then let it be... if she is interested in u, she wld try beating around the bush trying to get u to ask her who is it... If she is a girl u dun knw... Try understanding her body language... If she just smiles at u, just take it tat she is being nice to u or sth... If u think she is interested in u, then dun give her the wrong signal and lead her on. It's okay to SMILE :) at her... Just make sure u dun look flirty/interested in her...
I knw tat it is nt as simple to do wat i have just said. But pls try to make a effort in trying to do it...
Dun hurt someone else's feeling for the sake of ur own feeings... It is okay to sacrifice ur happiness and feeling for the sake of someone else's happiness and feeling.
But DUN EVER sacrifice someone else's happiness and feelings,
for the sake of ur own one...
I am now feeling sooo much better being able to "say out"/express my feelings : )
Okie, time for my presentation...
GTG...
BYE!!! :D